This post is for men only. Move on women, nothing to see here.
Anyway guys the point is, the reason it is hard to understand women is because everything is a test to see if you care! If you are not sure of what she really wants when she asks a question, suggests something unusual, or reacts in an unusual way, ASSUME IT IS A TEST. Try and act in a way that indicates you care. Take your time, some questions have a trick answer, but take too long and you automatically fail.