I Remember
Recently,
Joe Biden has told several stories where research has shown facts make his
stories just that, stories.
His dates
are off, the locations are wrong, and his memories include things that never
happened.
I have to empathize
with the ex-VP. I often remember events
like they were just yesterday, and yet my facts are all off. I’m pretty sure the events are accurate, but
the facts…not so much.
It is called
being old!
When I was
nine years old, I clearly remember hunkering down during a hurricane in Ocean
City New Jersey. It was at my Grandmother’s
house, a block from the ocean. It had to
be early September as we did not go to the shore after school started, it was
probably Labor Day weekend, in 1955, or 1956.
I remember
being on the third floor of Grandma Gus’ shore house, scared silly as the house
was swaying. My Grandma assured me that
the house was built to sway in heavy winds, otherwise it would just snap! I did not find that to be reassuring.
I remember
the ocean met the bay that storm, and there was water all over, though it did
not get into the house. I remember clear
as day when the eye passed over and all was calm for about 20 minutes before
all Hell broke out again.
I remember
for sure this storm was Hurricane Hazel.
Who would forget that name?
Research has
shown me there were no storms in NJ in early September 1955 or 1956.
Hurricane
Hazel was in in 1954. It struck in
October 1954. In 1954, my family was
still living in California.
I googled
Hurricanes in NJ. The only hurricanes
that hit NJ in 1955 or 56 were not direct hits.
The only hurricane that hit near Ocean City that could fit my memory was
Iona in September 1955. Except it hit
September 19. School started early
September, not sure why we would have been at the shore after school
started. Also, records show that the eye
of that hurricane did not pass anywhere near southern NJ.
I have a
distinct memory of living through a hurricane in September 1955/56 in southern
New Jersey. I was scared, I remember the
howling winds, the rain, the flooding, the sudden calm as the eye passed
over. I remember all these things as
clear as day.
Google says
it never happened.
Something
happened, I remember it clearly. Except
it couldn’t have happened according to the storm records I researched.
Take it easy
on ex-Vice President Biden. Facts and
events and just things you may have heard get jumbled in your mind when you are
old.
Things that
old people remember are not lies. These
things happened.
Except they
didn’t.
Dear Sir,
ReplyDeleteI would not be concerned that certain events, vivid in your memory as they may be, are not confirmed by Google or the internet. The internet is not always right. Our memories, aged as they may be, are often more accurate.
For example, I remember vividly going upstairs to the bathroom only to discover that we live in a bungalow. I checked the internet. It confirmed I live in a bungalow. How then did I get upstairs to a non-existent bathroom?
On another occasion I remember taking the cat for a walk and falling off someone's roof. I checked with the family. We have no cat. Where did I fall off then?
I also remember distinctly, only this morning, waking up and having a shower. How then did I find my self in the car-wash down the road? Mrs Forsythe, our spinster friend, was scandalised at the sight. Has she never seen a car-wash before?
Yours sincerely,
What's my name?
God bless you, Joe. Good post.
And the sad thing is everyone you could ask to validate our story have already passed. With those vivid memories I think something did happen in 1955 or 1956. Perhaps history got it all wrong?
ReplyDeletebetty
Isn't this the truth. Also if you tell the story over and over it get better and better with each tell. Just saying.
ReplyDeleteHave a fabulous day, Joe. 😎
I have memories like that. At least I can go back to 2005, and see some things documented on my first blog. Just to prove to myself that I'm not crazy!
ReplyDeleteThat is quite interesting to have such a vivid memory of something and then not find record of it. Possibly it wasn't as bad of a tropical storm as you remember it to be?
ReplyDeleteRemember my husband claiming to have not gone to his college graduation when I have the photos to prove that he was there? Yup, getting old!
There are a few things i remember that did not happen, but they did. It's more a matter of how our brains process things than anything else.
ReplyDeleteKind of scary isn't it? More recent for me, I swore a while ago that when I moved here in 2004 that we were hit by a really bad tornado. Seems it was more like 2008. Dang.
ReplyDeleteFacts from youth are slippery. Sometimes I remember things that didn’t happen too.
ReplyDeleteThat’s part of it.
Helluva "story", Joe. I just read it to the wife and we've been recalling family stories for an hour. Thanks!
ReplyDeleteThat is the nature of memory. OR -- woo-woo alert -- alternative universe experiences intrude?
ReplyDeleteNow I'm hearing the Twilight Music. Except it isn't playing...
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